5 Most Common Signs of Infidelity According to Private Detectives

A study by the renowned Kinsey Institute for Research on Sex, Gender and Reproduction in 2011, 19% of women and 23% of men had been admitted to adultery. Also, the definition of adultery from one person to the other seems to be quite hazy.

Peggy Vaughn, author of The Monogamy Myth, says that 60% of men and 40% of women will experience a sexual union outside the relationship, and at least once in their life.

A study by the University of Washington showed that 62% of men and 46% of women who cheated on their spouses did so with a colleague at work.

However, the above figures are disturbing.

Do You Sometimes Have Doubts About the Loyalty of Your Partner?

Some confidential comments were collected from private detectives who are too familiar with the modus operandi of the unfaithful couple. In general, some tests do not lie. Here we share some:

• Narcissistic and Selfish

This type of person lives in the moment when everything is instant gratification and is considered correct and good. If your loved one is the total portrait of the hedonist ... watch out ... because what kind of person is not known to remain stoic in the face of temptation. Does the person who is vain have a constant need for praise? This is an important feature.

• Change of Attitude

Any sudden change in attitude is suspicious. You received 20 text messages from your beloved Jules and suddenly the number of messages decreases drastically? Your partner arrives later, your work begins earlier, you start playing sports, a new hobby with friends who are unknown to you? Your partner is distracted, shows a good mood in general without explanation? Does your partner start making love to you differently, using new positions? Warning. Because behaviour change is one of the first signs of infidelity.

• Unsatisfactory sex life

Among the infidels, inadequate and poor intimacy results in a need for vitality and passion in bed that is often cited in frustration. In other words, sexual dissatisfaction is the birthplace of infidelity ... (a study conducted by the Washington Post in 1999, 65% of infidels blame disappointing sexuality).

• The Electronic Secret

A password on your cell phone. A second password on the cell phone after five minutes of inactivity. A password in certain sectors of the computer, the connection to the computer itself and the search engine. The person does not access his Facebook account or email when he is with him. It doesn't keep your emails, filters and doesn't keep your call history. Your mobile account is sent directly to your office and not to your home.

• New Appointments

Be careful with your partner's new encounters and friendships from which you are excluded. In fact, private detectives have seen all kinds of cases. "Most of the time, he was a neighbour, colleague, friend, dermatologist, personal trainer, etc."

The above points are only general guidelines, it is rather a narcissistic tendency that is common among the vast majority of unfaithful spouses or a sudden change in attitude and / or lack of transparency.